Steps For Conflict Resolution
Step 1: Stop and Calm Down
Calm down my body by taking some deep breaths.
Calm down my mind by saying to myself:
“I won’t blow up.”
“I won’t get myself into trouble.”
“I can control my temper.”
Step 2: Think
Think about:
What will happen if I lose my temper?
Whether to stay, walk away, ignore or talk to an adult.
Step 3: Talk
Talk to the person and say why I am angry or upset.
Step 4: Feel Good Again
Get rid of any anger by:
-Doing something active.
-Doing something I enjoy.
-Doing a relaxation exercise.
-Trying to forgive and forget.